Wednesday, August 22, 2012


We traveled through the night via train to get back to the capital and had a day to prepare for our return journey back to the States.  It was nice to be able to spend a day with my wife walking through the beautiful parks, cathedrals, and historic areas while enjoying a cool and breezy early fall afternoon.  For the immediate, it was a welcome distraction.

As of now, we are sitting in the airport lounge in Munich waiting for our connecting flight to the States. Reality is working its way back into our lives helping to distract us from the events of the last few days.  But it is only a distraction.  Our hearts will always have a hole in them that Duncan was supposed to occupy.  God and time will reduce the size and the jagged edges, but it will always be there.  So why did this happen? 

Honestly, I don't know and probably never will.  There will many who will offer up opinions and ideas but the ultimately reality is that only God knows.  As a human being, I struggle at times to take comfort in that.  But as a merciful and gentle Father,  He brings this particular passage of Scripture to my attention.

"And He said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore most gladly I will rather boast in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me."         2 Corinthians 12:9

His strength is made perfect in our weakness, and right now we are weak, tired, confused and unsure.We need His strength and reassurance as I know it is the only thing that can restore and refresh our spirits.  We are not defeated and will seek His face in hopes that He will place another calling upon our lives.  Our world is full of so much need and I look forward to Our Next Big Adventure.

In Christ's un-ending love,

Tim and Cathy

Monday, August 20, 2012

Coming Home

I know many of you have been waiting and praying for Duncan to make his decision and he decided this morning that it would be in his best interest to stay in his country.  As you can imagine it was extremely  heartbreaking as we know the challenges he will face when he leaves the orphanage.  He needs prayer now more than ever.

We are frantically trying to make arrangements to leave the country and I will update everyone later this evening or tomorrow.

I can't thank all of you enough for your continued thoughts and prayers.

Sunday, August 19, 2012

A Call to Action

I read a passage of scripture the other day and it has had a tremendous affect on me. Perhaps God has chosen to reveal it to me now given our current situation.  As followers of Jesus Christ we are called to action and to not sit idly by until He returns.  After all, love is a verb.  What form that action takes is dependent upon the good works that He has set aside for you.  But know this, He has set aside good works for you (Ephesians 2:10).  I encourage you to open yourself up and allow God to touch your heart and then respond to that touch in such a way that will cause the world to notice and God to be glorified.

31 “When the Son of Man comes in His glory, and all the holy[c] angels with Him, then He will sit on the throne of His glory. 32 All the nations will be gathered before Him, and He will separate them one from another, as a shepherd divides his sheep from the goats. 33 And He will set the sheep on His right hand, but the goats on the left. 34 Then the King will say to those on His right hand, ‘Come, you blessed of My Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world: 35 for I was hungry and you gave Me food; I was thirsty and you gave Me drink; I was a stranger and you took Me in; 36 I was naked and you clothed Me; I was sick and you visited Me; I was in prison and you came to Me.’
37 “Then the righteous will answer Him, saying, ‘Lord, when did we see You hungry and feed You, or thirsty and give You drink? 38 When did we see You a stranger and take You in, or naked and clothe You? 39 Or when did we see You sick, or in prison, and come to You?’ 40 And the King will answer and say to them, ‘Assuredly, I say to you, inasmuch as you did it to one of the least of these My brethren, you did it to Me.’
41 “Then He will also say to those on the left hand, ‘Depart from Me, you cursed, into the everlasting fire prepared for the devil and his angels: 42 for I was hungry and you gave Me no food; I was thirsty and you gave Me no drink; 43 I was a stranger and you did not take Me in, naked and you did not clothe Me, sick and in prison and you did not visit Me.’
44 “Then they also will answer Him,[d] saying, ‘Lord, when did we see You hungry or thirsty or a stranger or naked or sick or in prison, and did not minister to You?’ 45 Then He will answer them, saying, ‘Assuredly, I say to you, inasmuch as you did not do it to one of the least of these, you did not do it to Me.’ 46 And these will go away into everlasting punishment, but the righteous into eternal life.”
Matthew 25:31-46

Below is a short video from Reece's Rainbow, a Christian organization specializing in finding homes for orphaned children with disabilities.  They are fantastic and have been with Cathy and I every step of the way on our journey.  Perhaps you too will be called to help.

I leave you with a new favorite quote.  

"I love the recklessness of faith.  First you leap, and then you grow wings."
-William Sloan Coffin

Saturday, August 18, 2012

No news is good news???

We had a great meeting with Duncan today, very relaxed, no pressure.  I had downloaded a couple of football (soccer) apps to my iPhone and iPod Touch and he and I were able to play head to head via bluetooth.  We were both laughing and having a great time trying to out do the other.  Not bragging, but the old man with little to no gaming skills came away victorious.

Another American family is at the orphanage and adopting a boy, Tyler,  a few years younger than Duncan.  We have had a chance to get to know them a bit and share a few meals together.  They are wonderful people and are adopting a great child who will grow and develop rapidly with his new family.  They were sitting with their new son today very close to us playing games on their iPad.  Duncan got bored of the football game and went to watch Tyler play his games.  It wasn't long before they were both playing together, a very basic English spelling game.  It became very clear quickly that Duncan knows a bunch of English words.  So we grabbed my iPhone, which has a much more advanced English/Russian game on it, and put him to the test.  He knows a large number of English words and was ripping through the levels on the game with very little effort. So why doesn't he try to communicate with us in English?   I think he is just shy and doesn't want to try for fear of failing and possibly embarrassing himself.   I know the feeling.  If you could only see me in action in China, very embarrassing.

Our visit was over quickly and he needed to go eat lunch.  Neither the interpreter nor us asked about his decision.  Monday is the deadline, so we will wait.  Unfortunately, he will spend the rest of his day today and all day tomorrow with his groupa who are lobbying hard for him to stay.  He knows what is a stake and is most likely tired of having everyone tell him over and over again what he should do.  We have a 16 year old son at home and are very cognisant of when he gets tired of hearing it from us, usually yawning, eye rolling, and looking every where but at you.  I have seen two out of three from Duncan on several occasions so I know he is overloaded.  He is just needs to verbalize his decision as I am convinced he has already decided.

The orphanage has an exhibit of many of the children's artwork in town, so we stopped by on our way back to the apartment. There were some beautiful pieces on display.  A boy from the orphanage was there giving demonstrations of his artwork which consists of melting crayons onto an iron and then transferring them to paper.  I took a short video of how he does it so you all could enjoy it as much as we did.

This young man was very patient and even helped me, who has zero artistic ability, to produce a piece of art using his technique.  I think the boys will be eager to try this when we get home.  Perhaps they can show their art teacher and spend a couple of classes working on some techniques.  After all,  if I can do it then they will master it quickly.

Tomorrow is a day off, no visits to the orphanage. I want to thank everyone who has been praying hard for Duncan.  It humbles and overwhelms me and I can't thank all of you enough.

Friday, August 17, 2012

No decision

I know many of you, myself included, have been anxiously anticipating a decision from Duncan as to whether or not he he wants to be adopted.  As I have mentioned multiple times in this blog, this is a difficult and gut wrenching decision for him and one that will affect the rest of his life.  I know he has been thinking about it, wrestling with it, and I am sure it weighs heavy on his mind.

Our visit with him today was relaxed and fun.  We talked about a variety of subjects as we continue to get to know each other better, building trust through familiarity.  He has told the interpreter several times that he likes us and his willingness to share more shows it.  But something is holding him back from taking that final step and making the commitment.  We had hoped it would come today, but he said he wasn't ready and asked if we could come back. What could we say? 

So, we are headed back tomorrow for another 2 hour visit with another interpreter.  Perhaps a slight shift in the routine will yield a different result.  I can't even begin to list all the emotions and feelings that are  running through my mind.  When we left the orphanage today I was upset, not with him but with a system and a situation that forces one so young to make such a decision.  My heart aches for him and his struggle.  We so desperately want him to say "yes" but it is not our decision. 

It is a challenge but we are holding firm to the One that brought us here in the first place.  Only He knows what will happen and why, we just have to trust, which at times is easier said than done.  Continue to pray for Duncan but we also humbly ask that you lift us up as well as we journey along side him.

Thursday, August 16, 2012

Day 2

After our first day with Duncan, we were anxiously anticipating being with him without the entire posse in tow.  Honestly, all those people that were with us the first day want the absolute best for him, but it just seemed like too many voices.

Our second day with him was much more relaxing, just us, him and the interpreter.  We sat and talked for a while, taking turns asking questions and providing answers.  He seemed much more at ease and himself, a delightful and charming boy who has made the most of his situation.  My impression is that he is thoughtful and introspective, carefully and cautiously considering his options before making any decisions.  I can respect that.

At one point I offered him a Jelly Belly bean but was not paying attention to what flavor he took.  Unfortunately, he grabbed a coffee flavored one, which I now know he hates.  Whoops!  After that, he wouldn't take another from me despite our assurances that it was fruit flavored.  He probably thinks I tried to poison him.

We were treated to a tour of the grounds by Duncan who gets around amazingly well with no walker or wheelchair.  They have beautiful flower beds and a greenhouse where he gets to work. There is a soccer field, volleyball court, and all kinds of playground equipment.  Shade trees abound.

After a bit we settled on a bench and continued to talk.  He loves football (soccer) and rap music, he has never flown but has taken the train, likes Ukrainian food (which is very good), and is an advanced mathematics student.  

But I can sense the conflict within him.  He loves his country, his friends, his teachers, and his school and there is a possibility that things could work out for him if he stayed in his country. But that path is very uncertain and fraught with some very scary and real obstacles.  However, the path with us is equally as frightening and uncertain in his mind.  

Our interpreter pressed him a bit for his decision but he would not commit.  This is a huge step for him and I know it is taking a toll.  She gave him an ultimatum that he needs to let us know by tomorrow and not drag this out any further. 

I pray that God will give him peace about his decision and grant him a quiet night's rest.  We will know tomorrow.

First Contact

Well we finally got to meet Duncan, face to face.  We meaning me, Cathy, the interpreter, the assistant orphanage director, the lawyer, the social worker, and his school principal. Seven adults and I quiet sixteen year old boy with the weight of his future riding on his shoulders.  It has to be overwhelming to walk into a room full of adults that are all there to try and convince you to pick up your life and move to America with this family you only just met.

Can any of you imagine making that kind of decision at 16?   

He did not say much during this visit as most of the adults from his world did all the talking.  Some asked questions of Cathy and me,  but much of it sounded like a lecture aimed at him.  There were a couple of times where I wanted to jump up and yell "STOP",  just leave the boy alone to weigh his options.  He is a bright and intelligent boy and knows what is on the line and he is carefully weighing his options.  However, there are a number of forces at work in his life that run counter to our efforts. 

The older boys in his group constantly tell him that Americans adopt foreign kids in order to kill them and sell their organs. I know from where you sit that sounds like a complete whopper, but to these kids it is reality, they  believe that it happens. What is more concerning is that several of the adult caregivers not only propagate these lies but embellish them in an effort to keep the kids for fear of losing their jobs.  If all the kids get adopted, what would they do?  It is easy to judge them, but to be honest how often do we act in ways that are self serving, without concern for what would truly benefit another person, and often without all the facts. These people have never been to American and their only perspective is from the media when something horrific happens and that  helps to shape a distorted image of our society.

Duncan is going to have to make a decision very soon.  Please pray for him!  We are asking God to grant him wisdom, clarity of thought,  peace, and that the voices of influence be silent.  He needs to make this decision not his friends, teachers or even us.

Will we be disappointed if he says no?   Absolutely.  In fact,  brokenhearted would be a much more accurate  answer.  But we take great comfort in knowing that we are not in control and are commanded to be obedient, regardless of the outcome.  We get in trouble when we try to write the end of the story, an ending that only God knows. 

We will get to meet with him with only the interpreter tomorrow. I know it will be much better.

Wednesday, August 15, 2012

Peace Train

Today has been our busiest and most enjoyable since we have arrived.

Last night was an all night train ride down to the region where the orphanage is located.  I had visions of a peaceful and restful night as our train slipped though the country side.  Well, you know what they say about the plans of mice and men.....

The train, while dated, was very nice.  We had a sleeper compartment all to ourselves and even enjoyed a nice freshly made cup of instant coffee before turning in for the evening. 

They even had a cool infinity mirror setup to keep us entertained.  From Cathy's perspective, you could see my bald spot a million times over.

However, the tracks that were travelling on/over were probably cold war era and were not laid with peace and comfort in mind.  Our train rock, bounced, rolled and jerked its way through the night.  Sleep was very difficult to come by, but mercifully about 4:30am both Cathy and I finally dozed off.  At 5:30am, we were both jerked awake when someone ran through our train car screaming "FIRE" at the top of his lungs.  I don't know about you, but that word usually solicits a rapid and heart pounding response.  Before we could even think clearly, we were rounding up our belongings making sure we had all the important documents related to the adoption in our possession.  It was a this point that Cathy's mind snapped into gear and she questioned why "fire" was said in English?  So we sat and waited, sniffed the air, and listened to see if there were any further cries of alarm.  There were none; we had been victimized by a hoax.  So, we settled back down and enjoyed the last 90 minutes of the trip, wide awake.

When we arrived we were met by a driver and a translator and driven to our new apartment.  The apartment was still occupied by a couple form the States who is also adopting from the same orphanage.  They had their court appointment yesterday and are starting their journey home this afternoon.  They are a wonderful couple from Virginia who are adopting two children with Down's Syndrome, totally amazing.  After quick hellos and a change of clothes we were off again with the promise to get together later before they left.

Our next stop was the regional office of what is their department of Social Services.  Our first government appointment gave us permission to travel to this region, now we needed permission to go to the orphanage.  It is nice to see that their government functions much like ours, S..L..O..W..L..Y.  After more that 90 minutes of standing, sitting and waiting in general, our petition was granted and the area social worker gathered us up and we were off to the orphanage and our first meeting with "Duncan".

Tuesday, August 14, 2012

Laundry Room Update

Thanks to our friend Chris , my father-in-law Paul , and my son Holden the remodeling project in the old laundry room and the bathroom is nearing completion.  Our old laundry room is now Holden's new bedroom and the bathroom was slightly enlarged to accomodate a stacking washer and dryer.  We are doing all this so that "Duncan" can have a bedroom of his own. 

Our friend Matt will be coming over this week to tape and mud all the new sheet rock so Cathy's folks can paint. After that, we will install a closet rod, shelf and the bifold doors.  While we are running a bit behind schedule the project will be wrapped up before we get home.  Thanks to everyone for all the help!

Monday, August 13, 2012

We made it

The Lord was with us on Saturday and Sunday as our travel went incredibly smooth.  There were no  delays, smooth flights, an upgrade to first class, and our luggage made it.  What more could anyone ask for? 

Our driver picked us up from the airport, although he was a few minutes late and had us wondering what we were going to do, and hauled us and all our gear into the city.  I think we brought too much stuff.  After a quick stop at a grocery store to gather supplies, he brought us to our temporary home for the next couple of days.  While it is a small apartment, it more than meets our needs and has wireless internet which is an upgrade from home. 

This morning was our first official meeting with the government officials who oversee international adoption.  We were shown our child's very limited bio and asked if we wanted him, why we wanted to adopt him, and if we had any concerns about his physical disabilities.  It seems a bit odd to ask if we had any concerns given the fact that we just flew 5,000 miles to come and get him.  The appointment is really just a formality and was over in 15 minutes.  Tomorrow we pick up our "referral" and then it is an all night train ride to his region.  We hope to get to meet him on Wednesday!

Cathy and I had a chance to go for a brief walk this afternoon.  It started raining late Sunday night and hasn't stopped since, so we spent must of our time in an local underground mall.  If not for the Cyrillic signs and the lack of English,  you would have thought you were in an American mall.  We even had an ice cream cone at Baskin Robbins. 

We are planning on taking a sightseeing tour tomorrow and hope to be able to share some photos in the next couple of days.

Saturday, August 11, 2012

Let it begin.......

Actually it began 5 months ago. Cathy showed me a picture of a boy in desperate need of a home and a family and thus began an amzing and quick journey that has led us to this point. And where are we? Sitting in an airport waiting on the first flight of a long day and night of air travel. It is hard for me to believe this is actually happening. In fact I laughed out loud while I was packing my bag, I can't believe we are really doing this, we must be crazy! But nothing has ever felt more right and I have a complete and total peace about it. As confirmation, last night was the first night in a week that I had a great and restful night's sleep.

Please keep us in prayer as there are many things that still need to happen in order for this adoption to be completed.

Hang on, this is going to be great!

Saturday, July 28, 2012

Laundry Room

Time is short and we need to finish converting the laundry room to a bedroom. Thanks to help from our good friend Chris we were able to get the rough framing done today.

On the left is the opening for the bedroom closet. The right side is the back of the washer/dryer closet that faces into the bathroom. Our 16 year old son, Holden, and I had already done the tear out the previous weekend.

Going to do electrical and plumbing now so we can get the sheet rock up before we go. Two weeks and counting.

Thursday, July 26, 2012

Let the chaos begin.  We received our travel date yesterday and we are not exactly ready to go.  In the next few weeks we are going to need to complete a number of household projects, arrange for Cathy's parent's to come stay with our kids, compile all our documentation, clear my leave of absence with work, and pack, just to name a few of the more pressing priorities.  The most stressful part is making sure you don't forget anything as we are not exactly traveling a short distance. 

God has been incredibly gracious and generous to us during this whole process.  We have 100% faith that He will continue to be with us during this chaotic time of preparation.  Please be praying for peace and our upcoming travel.  Also, that all our needs, spiritual, physical and financial will be met. And most importantly, for our new son, that God will protect and keep him and soften his heart to the idea of coming to live with this.  This is going to be huge decision for him, one that will affect the rest of his life. 

We will do our best to keep the blog up to date.

Tuesday, June 19, 2012

Our dossier was submitted today!  Getting closer, and closer.

Saturday, June 9, 2012

Olympic Expenses

Well, we thought we were all set as far as adoption expenses were concerned.  God has been so good to provide. 

But, today we learned that we should expect to pay more than twice the usual price for our airline tickets (if we travel in August) because of the summer Olympics and the Eurocup.

Tim asked me to go ahead and try to raise a little extra in case we need it.

So, I am happy to say I have reactivated my Etsy site

I have been meaning to do this for ages and this was just the nudge I needed.  I hope to add some new bags and possibly some clutches soon as well.

Take a look and pass on the link to anyone you think might be interested.  Thanks!

Tuesday, June 5, 2012

A young man in a very distant country has a birthday coming up very, very soon. 
How I wish we could just go pick him up and bring him home so he could celebrate it with his family.
Instead, I will be taking the boys shopping for gifts to be wrapped up and set aside for a belated birthday celebration when he does get here.  After all, one’s sixteenth birthday should not go uncelebrated under any circumstances. 
So, what do you buy a brother you have never even met?  Ah, my boys don’t have any trouble there.  They have a long, long list of things that they are certain “Duncan” should have.  After all, they have a lifetime of little treasures here.  Things like ballcaps and wallets, watches, legos, shiny rocks, fake arrowheads, soccer balls, magnets, favorite hoodies, cameras, flashlights, comic books, guitars, sketchbooks,… the list goes on.
Their brother deserves all these things and more and they are determined to be sure he has them.  (Mama may have to step in here or he will be completely spoiled rotten by his siblings!) 
It will be a happy day for us, because his birthday was our deadline.  And we made it.
It will be a day to be so thankful he is in a good facility, getting an education and some therapy, a day to pray for those who a caring for him, and for those who will miss him so much when he leaves there, a day for imagining life with him and looking forward to bringing him home.  I hope and pray it is a happy day for him as well.
If you happen to think of that certain boy who is turning 16 without his family, please pray for him.
(It won’t be long now!)

Monday, June 4, 2012

We got our USCIS biometrics appointment letter!
Things are moving again!!!

Friday, June 1, 2012

One of my handbags is in this auction (along with a lot of other really cool stuff) to raise money for the sweet woman who is responsible for getting “Duncan” listed on Reece’s Rainbow. 

She and her husband are bringing three (yes THREE – and you thought we were crazy) precious kids home very soon and that won’t be cheap, let me tell you.

So go over there and bid on something, or just pass the link on to someone who might.


Monday, May 28, 2012

It seems like I always come back to Thank You on this page.

Today I need to thank everyone who has donated generously to help get “Duncan” home.  Every little tick upward on his account is just like a hug. 

It is so hard not knowing who you all are.

But I do know who some of you are :

The Palmers
The Rogers Kids
Faith and The Folks at the Buffalo Farmer’s Market
Miriam and Nathan
My Grandma

Thank you so much!

But money is by no means the only thing that we have needed during this nerve wracking time.  The encouragement, kind words and prayers mean so much.

There is no way for me to know everyone who has sent up a prayer on our behalf or posted a link or asked their friends to pray.

But I do want to thank:

Debbie A.
Chandra and Pat
Renee A.
Nancy T.
The Miles’
Mom and Pops

I certainly do know every single soul who has helped get our paperwork through so far.
Thank you to:

Pastor Westfall
Melissa R.
Jonna B.
Brenda S. (My bank lady)
The Very Pleasant Ladies at the Washington County Clerk’s Office
Mr. Wrigley (Our Amazing Attorney)
Nancy T.  (This name should be in gilded letters)
The Woman at DCJS Who Solved a Big Scary Problem for Me

All of you have gone over and above to walk through this with us and offer us all kinds of support.

We are still waiting for that letter from USCIS.  Let me tell you, as soon as we get it we will be in the car making a beeline to the fingerprinting office!

I am also happy to report that almost everything is paid for and we basically just need to save up enough for our plane tickets.  (And there is a chance that Tim’s frequent flyer miles will help there!)

There is no way for us to tell you all how much your commitment to our family means.  I am sorry I don’t do a better job of updating you all.  And I am sure I forgot to mention someone very important in those lists above.  Please forgive.

I will let you know as soon as I hear something.  I promise.

Thursday, May 17, 2012

Okay, so what happens now?
Well, we wait for a letter from Homeland Security informing us of our fingerprint appointments.
We get fingerprinted.
We fax the results to our facilitator and she signals the Eastern European team to submit our dossier!

In the meantime we will be:

Trying to earn some extra money to help pay for our plane tickets
Furnishing “Duncan’s”  bedroom
Learning some useful Russian
Learning more about CP
Installing some ramps
Making arrangements for the kids when we travel

Did I mention how much prayer goes into this type of thing?

Thank you all for your tremendous support and, well….prayers!

Wednesday, May 16, 2012

Anybody who has been through an international adoption knows what these are!
Yep.  All of the dossier documentation is finished and was shipped out yesterday!
The Lord really has taught me to how to trust Him.

And now the wait begins. 

 (I have a feeling He is about to teach me patience.)

Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Let me tell you, I am getting really good at scanning documents. 

I am also much, much more organized regarding this process than I thought I could ever be.  Funny what God will use to mold you.

Anyhow, I wanted to jump over here for a minute and just thank you all again.  The answers to prayer that we are seeing really are amazing.

I wish I could thank each one of you personally for your help, both tangible and intangible.  But the humility of God’s people and good works performed incognito largely (and necessarily) prevent that.

So if you are one of the many, many people who have prayed for us, or advocated for Duncan or donated money or helped in some other way that I am not even aware of, consider yourself thanked, appreciated, loved and prayed for in return.

Tuesday, May 1, 2012

So many people ask me how things are going with the adoption. 

The truth is I have no idea.  I have never done this before.  Is it going faster than normal?  Slower?  Average?  I really have no clue.

But I can tell you this.  It is going just as our Lord intends for it to go.

Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God;
Philippians 4:6

And so I just keep praying (and making phone calls) and giving thanks (and filling out forms) and letting my requests be made known (and taking lots of deep breaths).

Monday, April 23, 2012

Okay, Murphy’s law kicks into high gear when you try to adopt a child in a hurry.

But we have seen so many prayers answered in such a short time.

Please keep praying with us.

We need: 
Tim’s blood test results to be done in record time.

All of the medical documents to be done correctly the first time.  (Not too worried, the office manager there has been VERY helpful.)

Our homestudy to be finished in a rush with everything properly “attached” (after our social worker gets back from vacation – sigh).

Everything that is out to be apostilled right now to be sent back to us in a hurry.

Our police clearances to be handled correctly and expeditiously.

Thank you all so much!

Friday, April 20, 2012

Lost Sheep

In Luke, Chapter 15, Jesus tells a beautiful parable about the lost sheep.  How anyone would leave their entire flock to go and search out the single sheep that was lost.  How there would much rejoicing when you found it and returned to celebrate again with your friends and family.  Cathy and I are now going to find our lost sheep.  Actually, we know who and where he is, we are just working out how to get there and get him.

His name is Duncan, or at least that is what they web site calls him.  He is an eastern European 15-year old boy with cerebral palsy who needs a home, a family and most importantly to experience the love of Jesus Christ.  His current position is tenuous and the lions are close by.  He turns 16 in about 60 days at which point he may have to leave the orphanage and fend for himself in a country not known for its compassion for those with disabilities or be transferred to a mental hospital.  Neither choice holds much promise for him.

So, here we are.  Adoption had been something Cathy and I had loosely discussed over the last several years but never seriously.  Duncan has touched our hearts and we are doing everything possible to get him.  Here’s the best part, it appears to be completely impossible.  We started from absolute zero a short while ago and have very little time left to complete an international adoption.  For anyone remotely familiar with adoption, 7 to 12 months is a more realistic timeline and that is if everything goes smoothly.   So how are we going to get this done?

We’re not.  God is.  There is no way we can do this, but we have absolute faith that if Duncan is our lost sheep it will happen and God will be glorified for it. Won’t you join us to witness this miracle in the making?

What do we need?  Everything, but most importantly prayer.  As much of it as physically possible.   This whole situation needs to be bathed in some serious, knee bending, dedicated, gut wrenching prayer.  To be honest, this is going to elevate my prayer life to a whole new level.   Maybe it will have the same affect on you.

After that, just listen and follow God’s prompting.  

Friday, April 13, 2012

The "Why"

Okay, it’s after 5:00 on a Friday evening. I can’t make any phone calls, the post office is closed and my attorney’s office is only open until 4:00 anyway. So, now that I can catch my breath, let me go back and fill everyone in.

Yes we are adopting a teenaged boy! Crazy huh? (Well, we have one already and we think they are pretty neat, so another one suits us just fine.)

The thing is, this is no ordinary boy. He happens to have a really great smile and wonderful dark, eyes and Cerebral Palsy. That Cerebral Palsy part is what gets him.

Because he is an orphan with a physical difference he is facing imminent transfer to a mental institution. We are not talking about Pleasant Acres here either. I don’t think I have to paint you a picture of what that might mean for him.

We couldn’t do nothing about that.

God has blessed us. We enjoy a steady income. We enjoy a roomy home. We enjoy gardens, a barn and a great view. Our kids will never face the mental institution. They will probably go to college, marry and have adorable kids of their own.

God doesn’t set everybody up that way. In fact, most of the rest of the world would consider us not comfortable, not upper middle class, but EXTREMELY WEALTHY.

It is simply time for us to start seeing ourselves that way. And to stop doing nothing about it.

What does this have to do with the boy we know as “Duncan”? Glad you asked. We believe God has showered these riches on us specifically so that we could give this boy a shot. A shot at a continued education. A shot at a marriage and kids.

A shot at knowing and understanding who God is and how He loves.

So there you have it. Call us crazy.

We prefer the term “blessed”.

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Thank you

What a day I have had!

One very unhelpful clerk felt it necessary to tell me her adoption horror story.

Apparently no one in the entire state of NY has ever asked for a state police clearance document. Ever.

And by the time I left the bank today I think the truly patient, sweet notary/teller was doing all she could to keep from poking me in the eye. (Three tries to get everything right!)

Tim left for six days on a business trip this morning.

I had unexpected company at supper time.

And...(drum roll please)

... the dryer broke down.

So that is why I came over here. Not to vent. (But, thank you, it does help.) Not to complain. Not to bring you all down.

I came over here to thank all of you.

I came over here to read all of your comments again.

To remind myself that we are totally covered in, surrounded by, and propped up on your prayers.

I am so grateful for all the encouragement and the kind words. I can’t begin to say what a refuge you all are to me already.

Thank you.

Tuesday, April 10, 2012

Well, here you are!

If you are here, then you have probably already been here. If not, go there now and then come back here. Got it?

Okay, so now you have been to Reece’s Rainbow.

And you have seen his adorable picture.

And you know what our next big adventure is.

We are excited and nervous and following God every step of the way.

Stay tuned!

(And get ready, I may be calling in some favors!)